Someday you'll learn that the many relationships you have in high school are not so fun after a while. Once you've given your heart to someone you thought you had mutual feelings for a time too many, you eventually find out that it's not really worth it anymore. High school is fun, for sure! They're even said to be your golden years. But must you be in a relationship to have fun? I've analyzed this subject quite a bit now and I've learned that there are so many high school students that are subconsciously dying to be in a relationship.
And for what? What's the whole purpose of a relationship anyway? I guess the answer to this question depends on the person being asked. I believe that relationships are mainly for courtship--to get to know someone so deeply and intimately because you plan on marrying that person. That seems to be the main goal of a relationship from my perspective. But high school is only four years long. After that couples usually break up because long distance relationships (if the case involves the partners each choosing different paths) are very tricky. So, the two are left heart broken and emotionally wounded because they just spent the last however many days/weeks/months/YEARS with someone who they cared about a lot. So what exactly is the purpose of dating in high school?
Soon you will learn that it's not a great idea to become emotionally attached to someone at such an early age. Sure it's possible to meet your future spouse in high school, but I believe a person should find their own way first; figure out your own life plans and then meet someone who would like to share that with you. :)
These are just my own beliefs... Feel free to comment!
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